Commentary
Heart of a Kashmiri: Legacy of love, courage, and responsibility
“No smear campaign can dim out truth. Let history judge—I, my people, and Kashmir will always rise above hatred, for our story is written in harmony, hospitality, humanity full of compassion, and empathy, not in the ink of bigotry.”
Kashmir, often referred to as “Paradise on Earth,” is not just a land of breathtaking landscapes but also a cradle of rich culture, traditions, and values. The essence of being a true Kashmiri lies not only in the love for the land but also in the embodiment of harmony, hospitality, and humanity.
These values are deeply ingrained in the Kashmiri ethos, shaping a society where responsibility towards fellow beings is never compromised. A true Kashmiri never falters in upholding these virtues, even in the face of adversity.
Harmony: The Foundation of Kashmiri Culture — Kashmir has long been a symbol of communal harmony, where people of different faiths—Muslims, Hindus, Sikhs, and Buddhists—have coexisted peacefully for centuries. The Sufi tradition in Kashmir has played a pivotal role in promoting tolerance and human kinship.
The famous saying “Kashmiriyat” encapsulates this spirit of unity, where cultural and religious differences are respected rather than becoming a source of division.
Historically, Kashmir has been a land where shrines of saints like Sheikh Noor-ud-Din Noorani (Nund Rishi) and Lal Ded have been revered by people of all faiths. The annual Urs (death anniversary) of Sufi saints is celebrated with equal fervour by Muslims and Hindus alike. This shared cultural heritage fosters a sense of belonging and mutual respect.
Despite turmoil and attempts to disrupt this harmony, Kashmiris have largely maintained their tradition of peaceful coexistence. A true Kashmiri understands that harmony is not just a social obligation but a moral responsibility—one that must be preserved for future generations.
Let not any divisive hate-monger paint me, myself, and Kashmiriyat black or red—history is witness to the truth. I, along with the spirit of Kashmiriyat, have stood as a testimony to resilience, unity, and humanity. Kashmiriyat is not just a word; it is the essence of our shared heritage, a bond that transcends religion and region.
Those who spread venom may distort narratives, but they cannot erase the legacy of humankind that defines us.
Hospitality: The Kashmiri Way of Life — If there is one trait that defines a Kashmiri, it is their unparalleled hospitality.
The famous Kashmiri saying, “Mehman Farishta Ka Roop Hoota Hai” (A guest is a reflection of the Angel), reflects the deep-rooted belief that welcoming guests is a sacred duty. Whether in a humble village home or a city household, a guest is treated with the utmost respect and warmth.
The traditional Wazwan, a multi-course Kashmiri feast, is a testament to this hospitality. No effort is spared in preparing the finest dishes for guests, regardless of their background. This tradition is not just about food but about making people feel valued and respected.
Even in peak times of conflict, Kashmiris have shown remarkable generosity towards outsiders. Stories abound of locals sheltering stranded tourists during snowstorms or offering food to strangers without hesitation. This unwavering commitment to hospitality, even in difficult circumstances, highlights the moral strength of a true Kashmiri.
Humanity: Compassion Beyond Boundaries — Humanity is the cornerstone of Kashmiri society. The concept of “Insaniyat” (humanity) transcends religious and ethnic lines. Kashmiris have historically extended help to those in need, irrespective of their identity.
During natural disasters, such as the devastating 2014 floods, people came together to rescue and rehabilitate victims without discrimination.
The Kashmiri tradition of “Chai-Khori” (tea gatherings) is not just a social custom but a way of fostering empathy and solidarity. In these gatherings, people discuss not just daily affairs but also ways to help those in distress.
Whether it is contributing to a neighbour’s medical expenses or supporting a poor family’s education, Kashmiris take their humanitarian responsibilities seriously.
Even in disturbed areas like ours, where fear and mistrust could easily dominate, many Kashmiris have risked their lives to save others.
There are countless instances where locals have protected outsiders from harm, proving that humanity prevails even in the darkest times.
Responsibility: A True Kashmiri Never Falters — The true test of character is how one upholds responsibilities in challenging times. Kashmiris have faced decades of political unrest, yet their commitment to their values remains unshaken.
Whether it is protecting minority communities during riots, providing shelter to displaced families, or maintaining communal peace, Kashmiris have shown remarkable resilience.
A true Kashmiri understands that responsibility is not just towards one’s family but towards society at large. Elders teach the younger generation the importance of honesty, kindness, and justice. The concept of “Rozgar-e-Halal” (earning through honest means) is deeply embedded in Kashmiri culture, emphasizing moral integrity.
Moreover, Kashmiris have a strong sense of environmental responsibility. The reverence for nature is evident in their sustainable lifestyle—be it the careful preservation of water bodies like Dal Lake or the traditional “Phirni” (afforestation) practices.
A true Kashmiri knows that protecting the environment is a duty towards future generations. It takes a lot of humility and courage to admit wrong is wrong and acknowledge someone else’s correctness. Appreciate people who prefer honesty over their ego.
Harmony, hospitality, and humanity are not just words in Kashmir—they are a way of life. A true Kashmiri never falters in upholding these values, even in the face of adversity. The spirit of Kashmiriyat is a beacon of hope, proving that love and compassion can withstand the test of time.
In a world increasingly divided by hatred and intolerance, Kashmir stands as a reminder that unity, kindness, and responsibility can create a society where humanity thrives. As long as these values are cherished, the essence of a true Kashmiri will never fade. The responsibility to preserve this legacy lies with every individual—because a true Kashmiri never falters.
Time and again, attempts have been made to tarnish our character, yet Kashmiriyat has endured, shining through the darkest storms. It is the voice of compassion in chaos, the lightning bird/firefly “jugnu” in dark clouds.
No smear campaign can dim its truth. Let history judge—I, my people, and Kashmiriyat will always rise above hatred, for our story is written in harmony, hospitality, humanity full of compassion, and empathy, not in the ink of bigotry.
“Come again, be my guest—let Kashmiriyat’s warmth embrace you.”
“Hazaar baatein kahe zamana, Meri wafa pe yaqeen rakhna, Har ek ada mein hai begunahi, Meri ada pe yaqeen rakhna,” by Ravi resonates with my resolution and nostalgic passion.
In our shared humanity, hatred finds no place.